Hey Pet Parents & Pet Lovers,
I don’t often give updates about our Betta fish, especially because it can be hard to. A few months ago I wrote a piece that mentioned how excited I am for winter break because I would try to train Blub to do some awesome tricks, but I’m not too sure that’s going to happen anymore.
I’ve been keeping it a bit of a secret that Blub doesn’t seem to be doing so well because I wanted to stay as positive as I could about his health, but with each passing day it seems like he’s getting worse.
Blub has been through a very tough year. He’s gotten a few of the most common Betta Fish Illnesses including Popeye and minor fin rot, and while he was cured of both it seems like something else is affecting him. He’s acting lethargic, like any sick Betta Fish would, but he’s still eating as well as he can, just having difficulty swimming.
At first, I thought Blub may be experiencing constipation, although he didn’t show any physical signs of constipation. I gave him some peas over a few weeks and that didn’t help. I then started treating him for fin rot with some Bettafix, but that also didn’t seem to help. So I tried a few of the other tips and tricks and it seems like nothing is helping.
I mean, the biggest positive is the fact that Blub is eating fairly well still. He’s eating at least 3 pellets a day, sometimes up to 5 (which is fairly normal), but I haven’t seen him so lethargic ever.
I’m wondering if Blub is just getting old or if there is just a condition I’m not aware of. I’ve asked a number of my friends who are “fish experts” at both pet stores/in clinics and they don’t see anything wrong with him, other than the remnants of fin rot, which in general takes time to disappear.
So what does this all mean? Well simply put, it means we don’t know how much longer we have with Blub. It’s clear that something’s wrong, but we can’t tell if he’s in pain or how unhappy he is. As a pet parent, that shatters my heart. I wish I knew what could make him feel better or tell what is really going on, but again with fish, it can be very difficult to tell, even when you’ve studied or read up on them.
I’m just sad that whenever I check on the fish tank now he no longer swims up to the front to say hello. I’m sad that I can’t tell if he’s in too much pain and if by me medicating him I’m just prolonging his pain. I’m sad that even though I’m seeking help and answers it doesn’t seem like I’m going to be getting them anytime soon.
At this time my partner and I are trying our hardest not to grieve Blub since he is still with us and there is a chance that he will pull a full 180 as that can sometimes be the case with fish. However, my partner and I have discussed what will happen if Blub does pass and we have both agreed that we won’t be getting another fish for a while. To us, this means a few years. We’re choosing to do so so we can focus on the animals that we do have, especially because we are still learning about Gary, our Chinchilla, daily.
While having a house full of animals is amazing when everyone is healthy, it can be emotionally draining when you can’t figure out just what is wrong. This is especially true about a creature so small who has no verbal way of communicating what is going on.
I’ll keep you all updated, and let you know if we somehow figure out what’s happening. Right now we’ve been convinced that it’s probably age, which again is difficult to confirm since we do not know how old Blub is and there’s no way of telling.
Sorry for a bit of a sad/angsty post today everyone. I just felt like it was time to give you this update about our dear family member.
Oh one more thing Kelly looks just like your Blub except with a little twist of girlieness. Have a beautiful day.
Hello. After reading your post it sounds like my betta is having similar symptoms as yours. On NYE my female betta fish was at the bottom of the tank, she was alive but seemed lethargic. I checked her water temp and it seemed cold. I went ahead and moved the tank (1.3 gal) to our bedroom being that its warmer and made sure her heater was working. I remember having some BettaFix and I used it. She is eating well and it doesn’t look like she has any fin rot. But I read its good for any bacterial fungus on bettas. She’s spending a lot of time on her lilly pad and when she tries to swim around she gets tired and sinks. When she tries to come back up she struggles. I don’t see anything on her fins. What else can I do? Should I try giving her peas? Please advise. Thank you.
Hey Roxanne, at this time yes the only other advice I can give you is peas. Do you know how old your Betta is by the way?
An update on Blub: he’s still breathing, however, he is swimming less and less each day. At the moment he’s in a terribly sad position (wrapped up in a ball upside down at the bottom of the tank). You can tell he’s still alive, although he no longer says hello to us and is less and less interested in eating.
We’ve tried the Betta Fix for the past couple weeks, but sadly it hasn’t been working. We’re fairly certain that it’s coming down to old age and him becoming very fatigued. Although, the only other change we made as of late was a change to the brand of water conditioner since our closest store no longer stocked his old one. I’ve been looking up to see if anyone else has experienced the same thing, however, I haven’t heard back/discovered anything.
I’m really hoping your little one bounces back, because it’s breaking my heart to see Blub fighting, but not getting better.
Thank you for replying to my post. Kelly (our betta) is about two years we’ve had her since she was a few weeks old. I will try the peas. Btw I’m so glad I came across your blog, I feel less alone going thru this. I’m truly sorry that Blub is also going thru this but he knows how much he’s cared for.
No problem for the reply Roxanne, it’s my pleasure. Make sure when you try the peas to defrost it fully and only feed a tiny, tiny piece. If Kelly doesn’t try to eat it within the first 5-10 minutes remove it from the tank or else it may begin to rot.
I’m glad you found the blog too! I’ve found it fairly hard to find other fish owners who are willing to share their experiences, so I thought… why not since we have fish!
That final bit made me tear up, I really hope he knows how much we love him.
We hope Blub feels better and you find peace. The only fish knowledge I have is what I’ve learned from your blog. That’s a compliment by the way – you share what you learn so others can be better pet parents. I admire that.
I’m so very glad you’ve been enjoying my posts about fish. I’ve been very happy to spread what I know to you. Thank you so much for the compliment, I can’t express how much I appreciate that.
I am sorry Blub is not doing well. I hope he improves soon.
Thank you Ellen, I appreciate it.
Oh, that makes me feel bad for you, too.
Blub is such a beautiful fish.
It sure *is* hard when our pets can’t tell us what they are feeling, etc. And frustrating for us, when we have provided the best care we knew how.
Sending purrs, waggles and POTP (POTF??) for Blub.
Thank you friends so much. It’s definitely been a huge learning curve for us in regards to Blub. I’m glad the times he has gotten sick in the past, I’ve been able to help him through them. Hopefully, it will be true this time around.
Aww, Blub! I am sorry to hear this. Here’s hoping that 180-degree turnaround is right around the corner.
I’m really, really hoping. Tonight he’s been swimming a bit more, which is good to see. My heart is so shattered.
Good Luck with Blub.
Thanks Crystal